What is blend? It is a mixture, becoming one. In real life, how are we going to apply this "Theory of Blend"? It is just like you have good EQ. You know how to mix around with any people. It can be very simple. Like in the office, if you are able to blend well with all your colleagues, everyone will find you easy to get along with. Even your boss might impresses your work and promotes you. But not everyone knows how to apply this "Theory of Blend".

Anywhere and everywhere, we tend to meet new people and even old friends. Most of the time, we are always blending within the group. I am not the type of knowing how to blend. Or rather I say I force myself to blend. In an office, school, or even friends, it is just like a community. There are a a lot of different characters of people. None are the same. Knowing this "Theory of Blend", it is able to bring more friends to you, more opportunities to you.

The mistake I had made, I forced myself to blend. When I didn't know how to stay together with a tiger, I changed myself to be one. In the end, what happened? I ended up, getting scratches and wounds all over. It was painful. Even I can change to be one, but I will never be one. Why? Cause I am just not a tiger. I thought that if I can be like a tiger, maybe things will be better. The fact is, it is not! I can lie to everyone but myself. Deep inside my heart, I know I am never one of them.

I am too used to asking questions like: How people looked at me? How I can blend in well together with everyone? When everyone is the same, why can't I? The answer is I am too concern the way people look at me. If this theory doesn't apply to me, I should be myself. There is a Chinese saying "What overcome changes is don't change." When you don't change, people will understand and accept who you are and what you are.

Mistakes make people grown up. Maybe this theory can be useful to some people. Just like coffee, if you add milk and sugar, it will changes its colour. It blends. And milk, sugar and coffee live happily ever after. What if hydrogen and oxygen can't mixed together to be water, just stay as it is. There are always ways that every single elements on earth have their own style of living besides this "Theory of Blend"