Simple explanation of karma: the result of a person's actions as well as the actions themselves. Which means is the cycle of cause and effect. According to the theory of Karma, what happens to a person, happens because they caused it with their actions. Karma is about all that a person has done, is doing and will do. Karma is not about punishment or reward. It makes a person resposible for their own life, and how they treat other people.
How often you are the last to used up the toilet paper? Do you always refill it? Or do you just hope that maybe the next person who comes it will do the refilling job for you?
Of course, sometimes I fall in the second scenario: hoping someone can do the job for me. Well, that's human nature.. And this is where I meant karma comes into the picture. When you are hoping that things will not come back to you, it will. I always 'think' someone in the family will do that simple job for me....... But it was always me who don't why ended in the toilet the next day with no toilet paper. (And that was me who just want to avoid the hassle of refilling the toilet paper).
Maybe it is just simple things happening. But it can reflect to reality..... Karma. Looking back at real life situation, a father who abused the child since the child was young. Slowly, the little child grew up, abused his own child and maybe even his father who used to abuse him when he was young. Get the picture? Sound similar like the toilet paper scenario?
Things that we often do, and yet we don't know it has been telling us 'We are what we do'. Or maybe our subconscious mind just choose not to notice it. In the end, whatever we do, remember karma does happen and it will always happen back to you despite whether is it a small little thing or ........
Translation of the above chinese verse:
As one sows, so
shall one reap. Every effect arises from a cause. Under certain conditions, a
cause will come to an effect. This is a universal principle, on which Buddhist
morality is based.
Here's a verse.
If you want to know the causes in your past life,
The way you live at present is the effect of your past life.
If you want to know what your future life will be,
What you do at present is the cause of your future life.
在4月6日的下午,一如往常地听着广播。。。突然,听到阿桑病逝的消息。阿桑是在去年10月查出乳癌末期。在4月6日上午8点半因乳癌末期病逝于台北县新店慈济医院,享年34歲。心头涌起一股莫名的哀伤, 也很意外。让我不经想起当时MC King突然的离去。。。阿桑的离去很突然,很意外,也让她身旁的人久久无法走出悲伤。
阿桑本名黄嬿璘, 英文名Judy。 她在2003年以一首偶像剧《蔷薇之恋》原声带中片尾曲《叶子》而一曲成名。在同年底发行的首张个人专辑《受了点伤 》,获得2004年第十五届金曲奖《最佳新人》入围。她也因为《蔷薇之恋》的火热,个人专辑发行前即享受比一般新人更高的知名度,后援会早早成立,到校园演唱更是广受学生热情欢迎,丝毫不逊其它已成名的歌手,殊不知这些掌声与赞美对阿桑来说,已迟来了四年,看到今天小小的成功起步,对照其传奇性的经历与坎坷的歌坛美梦,难怪阿桑会频频感慨落泪。她因独具特色的声音和治疗系的歌路,从此被称为“疗伤歌手”。
她的歌手生涯也不是一帆风顺。阿桑为了成为一名出色的歌手,经历了许多考验。 她曾经有3次出版专辑的机会,第一次,唱片公司为她录了歌,但就是不和她签约;第二次,签了约,但由于唱片市场低迷,没有录音;第三次,签了约,也录了歌,但一场突如其来的台风把录好的小样全部吹烂了。。。。。也曾为了维持生活,她也当过律师事务所的总机与百货公司的客服播音小姐。甚至为了能够专心录制唱片母带,多赚点钱,便在朋友开的泡沫红茶店里打工。。。。但她的坚持让她终于原了出唱片的梦想。
在两年前的一次例行体检中,阿桑被查出患有淋巴癌,但由于一直坚持治疗,病情控制得不错,因此很少有朋友知道阿桑的病情,甚至包括她内地的经纪人也不知情。但是在去年10月,阿桑再次做检查时,被告知癌细胞已恶化,并扩散为乳腺癌末期。在姐姐的陪伴下,阿桑一直顽强地接受化疗,不过由于癌细胞已经转移到了肝脏和肺部,最终于2009年4月6日早上8:30病逝于台湾新店慈济医院,享年34岁。在她顽强的抗癌期间,一向低调的她没有把病情告诉任何人。圈内好友包括动力火车、S.H.E都不知道她的病情。在他们的眼中阿桑是个开朗、乐观的。 阿桑生前好友的张智成 说“她人生最大的目标就是寻找幸福”,但她最终还是带着遗憾离开了。
她为什么叫阿桑?因为歌声很沧桑,唱片公司帮她取了个比本名更好叫,更容易被记住的小名,从她的歌声中想到了“桑”,就取名叫阿桑。2007年,阿桑曾经两次参加湖南卫视的《名声大震》节目,从而被内地歌迷熟知。
今天早上,有一位uncle 说是住在我们家楼下的邻居上来我们家。他按了我们家的门铃,表情很冷静地告诉我们他的女儿病了。他的老婆在做工,要到三点才回来。在同一楼的邻居都不在。。身上没钱,希望我们能借他三十块。当下,突然有很多问号 “有看过这位邻居吗?是不是个骗子?怎么从来没看过这位uncle?。。”
我只是在一旁看,什么话也没说。我妈跟他说对不起。。身上没有那么多现金,没办法借给他。他没多说就走了。他为什么不叫我们下楼去看他的女儿是真的生病了,让我们真实一下。最近有太多的骗局,搞到人心惶惶,对人都慢慢的都少了信任。。是我们太冷漠了吗?拒绝了他,我们都心有余悸。。。不知道自己到底做对了吗?如果真的借了给他,下次会不会更促使她再回来借更多呢?现在没借他,他的女儿会有事吗?好多疑问。。。
也不知道我们是在保护自己还是变得冷漠了?因为怕受到伤害为了保护自己而变得冷漠,还是忘了人与人的这份信任而变得冷漠了呢?
Remember the first time, when I know the Primary Five students, I overestimated myself. I thought I can handle them, but I was wrong. They made me angry, made me cried and even scolded vulgar words at me. They don't listen to what I asked them to do... I was at a lost... Ended up, I was being reprimanded by my supervisor. A person like me who never had kids, don't know how to handle them, I was almost going to give up, but I did not. Slowly, I realised that I had never stepped into their life for 5 years. To them, I was a complete stranger who was trying to control them. I learnt to talk to them, understand them, made friends with them.
I really missed them now but the decision had been made, I had to go....
About Me
- iN tHe BlOg
- Little tots that going around the brain cells.. Maybe desire to become a writer one day so starting of with this. Enjoy the juice, cheers!
MP3 Clips
Free Blogger Themes | Website Templates | Distributed by Blogger Templates

