As a human, we tend to forget. We might forget a person's name, the past, a familiar place etc. Forgetting is part of our lives. In the definition of forget, it is to lose (facts, knowledge, etc.) from the mind; fail to recall; be unable to remember; to fail to do, bring, etc. as because of carelessness; overlook, omit, or neglect unintentionally don't forget to write; to overlook, omit, or neglect intentionally. In life, it is common for a person to say " I forget about something." This something could be just an excuse, an unhappy event, don't remember to do or say, or even perhaps because of aging.
It is blessing that we can forget and it is also sad to say that we have this ability of forgetting. When we know this usefulness of the ability of forgetting, we can forgive a person. As there is always a saying, "Forgive and forget." Forgive other's mistake and forget what had done. It is a beautiful ability. In the function of the brain, when a person gone through a traumatize experience, a part of his brain will lock and forget about the 'experience'. Unless it was to be awake and recalled again. In a relationship if one party can forget other's fault, they would appreciate each other better. "Forget the past and let us move on together."
When forgetting becomes a serious problem, it is no longer a blessing. It becomes a part in the tip-of-the-tongue experience, when we're at a loss, usually with mouths gaping, for the right word or phrase, "I forget, I'm sorry". As we get older, our memory becomes harder to access and retrieve, and often telling the same stories. It is often easy to hear elders recalling things from the past and sometimes repeat questions that they would want to ask. Regular rehearsal or retrieval of memory is actually helping them to delay forgetting. As a result, memories can last for a lifetime with no appreciable loss of detail. In fact people are more likely to embellish a memory the more often they recall it.
We having this ability of forgetting, it is a blessing. A blessing that pieces of information, experiences that we gone through, we can choose to remember or forget. As we aged, this ability causing hindered, confused, loss. What happen when we don't have this ability and remember every single details that we gone through in our lives? Would our lives be better or would we be suffering? A lot of times, I prefer to forget than to remember. Remember the good and forget the bad.